Tantra is one of those things that seem so mysterious and elusive where sex is concerned. It seems that the only people with the knowledge are the ones that have firsthand experience. Since I am not one of those people, I decided to find someone that is. So, I politely prodded a friend of mine, Al Vitaro, owner of TantraChair.com and asked him if he would be kind enough to answer some questions for me. He was more than happy to help and jumped into the questions head first, hoping to entertain and enlighten those of you choosing to read this.

Q. For our readers that have no clue what Tantra is, can you please give a brief description of what it means?

A. Hello Ashtyn…my pleasure. When someone hears the word Tantra, in most cases, they understand that it has something to do with sex. This is true to some extent but in actuality, Tantra is a way of life and involves every aspect of an individual’s life. Tantra is a spiritual path so to speak, much like Zen Buddhism. Many Zen Buddhists are very “Tantric” in the way they live their lives.

Mindfulness and respectful inner and outer behavior is paramount. Tantra originated in India in the 4th - 9th century AD. and the concept behind the sexual aspect of Tantra is very special. It involves raising the kundalini (sacred energy that exists within us) and using this energy to achieve heightened awareness or enlightenment. During sacred intimacy, this energy is very present and a Tantric master understands how to harness this energy and go into Samadhi or an enlightened state.

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When I think of sex furniture a lot of very different visions come to mind. I see Liberator products with the micro-suede finishes, I see wild shapes, and I see things you need to keep behind a locked door. However, every now and then a product is introduced to me that is so sexy and you can keep it out in the open, but that can be used for mind blowing orgasms when said room is free of guests. One of these products is called the Tantra Chair.

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When I go looking for porn movies I recognize that there are a lot to choose from. There are thousands of porn movies made every year. Of those thousands, I would guess that about 85-90% of those movies aren’t even worth watching. I don’t see them all, naturally, so the number could be higher. In many ways, porn is all the same. It’s all about fucking. That being said, there are plenty of factors that make a movie worth watching or not, as the case may be.

There are plenty of surface reasons that I will want to check out a porn movie. Listed below are some of my reasons.

1. The Name Says it All – If a movie is named “Cum Guzzling Sluts 5”, “Big Booty Hoes 2”, or “Slutty Grannies from Outer Space” I am not buying it. Sure, I might review it at the cost of the studio (and probably mention what garbage I think it is), but I will not pay for it. I know it’s porn and that means that it’s not always the most artistic art form in the bunch, but if you want my money you’re going to have to do better than that.

2. Looking at the Genre – The genre is going to depend on whether or not I pay for porn. For example, I prefer BDSM based porn over straight sex. I like the idea of gay sex, but the porn is often boring, and I want something in or around my age group. So, before buying I read the box and look at the cover (we will get to that in a minute) before I decide on a purchase. Unfortunately, I usually do not find a lot of good porn in the genres I like the most, but there are a few good ones that have come along and have shown what the industry is capable of producing.

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I swear, Liberator has everything! From sex toys to furniture, lingerie, and lickables, if you are looking to have a hot evening with your sexy stud you can find literally everything you need at Liberator. I love only having to go to one website for all my adult needs. When I am planning something sexy, more often than not, I can zip over to the Liberator site to find what I am looking for to spice up my night. Today, for the upcoming Valentine’s Day holiday, I am recommending a gift for the men.

Ladies, while men love taking off your lingerie more than it seems like they like having it on, the visual stimulation will do you both wonders. Men are very visual creatures. With women, you can make love to their mind as well as their body, but men like to see those sexy sights to get them going. The Black Exhibitionist is suitable for women in sizes small to two extra large, making it suitable for nearly all sizes and women.

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BDSM and kink are a part of the everyday lives of some people and it’s a nice way to play in the bedroom occasionally, for others. The first group tends to take things a little more seriously, which leads to a skeptical eye when it comes to restraints that aren’t from a toy store that specializes in BDSM or bondage. Despite my knowledge and love for this kink-filled lifestyle, I could not help but adore this Zomi restraint set.

There are a couple of reasons that I like this set, so we will go into that in a minute. The point is that if you are looking for some multifaceted restraints that are both trendy and softcore, then Zomi could be what you are looking for this Valentine’s.

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